在每一個人面前,我們都預設了一個形象。 “在對方眼中,我是哪一種人?” 面對不同的人,不同的群體,我們的預設都會在不同。 例如,在母親面前,可能你會是愛耍寶的孩子,但在學生面前,你卻變成了嚴肅古板的老師。在老同學的聚會裡,和在公司部門的批鬥大會裡,你的形象必定會很不一樣。 這種預設是主觀的,我們經常誤判別人眼中對自己形象,我覺得我既寬容又謙虛,但在別人眼中,你可能既自大又龜毛。你以為你自己舉手頭足散發著高雅的氣質,可惜別人看到的只是你粗痞低俗的儀容。 不知道在你眼中,我又是甚麼形象?和我自己的預設的差天共地?
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